2021.10.26 14:26 theredditerisitalian Hi! I made a real time virtual whiteboard! Feel free to check it out and add something in it<3
2021.10.26 14:26 Hatenotechlab I decided to stay at xur until reset and now he's selling a rangefinder timed payload true prophecy
https://imgur.com/a/I4zZFeu it's not really anything major but i think it's pretty neat if you can get into an instance where he's still there
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2021.10.26 14:26 thegodfazha Partner of 9 Years/Fiancé Cheated - Attempted Reconciliation Gone Awry
The early morning of my brothers wedding I heard a ding from her phone. Saw it was from a friend of hers that we had prospected as potential threesome partner a couple weeks prior. I did what I had never done in my life until that point, I looked/spied on her phone to see if she said anything about it to him.
I scrolled down thru their texts and came across one from him that was absolutely paralyzing, something along the lines of “I’m not the type to just hit it and quit it and not talk about it.”
I figured out a lot in a short amount of time thru their texts and also of texts to her best friend and mother.
This apparently happened three weeks prior, just days after we had put money down and set a date at our wedding venue. She invited him over to hang out at 9pm. I’ve been told from her previously that their relationship consisted of being good friends on and off since age 4 and platonic beyond one attempted kiss in high school. She was at her mothers house in her hometown for something in prep for a cousins wedding she is the maid of honor for. She had told her mother that he was coming over to hang out for a bit and thought nothing of the ordinary.
In the texts she had lied to him saying she told me about everything. She lied talking with her mother and best friend that he and her had only kissed and that she’d told me about everything when she had not.
Both of us had responsibilities for brothers wedding I was the best man and DJ, and she was the officiant. While sitting in that hotel bed I decided to get my journal and start writing to vent while I determined what I was going to do.
I decided that I was going to do everything in my power to make the best day possible for my brother and his wife and suck it up before I confronted her when we got home the following day. I literally put on an act that entire day to be cheery, not make a scene. That whole day was a torture chamber, from her saying what was prepared being an officiant to all my family coming up at different points throughout complimenting her performance and being exited for our wedding the following year.
Being DJ throughout helped pass some time but I ended up getting too drunk and got pretty sick in the wee hours of the night, obviously because of what was going on.
We had driven to the wedding separately and the next morning I got a head start to write a letter out to her that I’d confront her with when she got home. I had decided that I was wanting to reconcile for two main reasons whether reasonable or not. Our relationship has spanned nine years and that five years previously I broke up with her because I was having sort of a mental breakdown/shift and needed a break from the relationship. I don’t think I handled that situation/break for the 3 months that year the best, so somehow I think I put the idea in my head that she deserved another chance like she had given me because of how heartbroken I left her from the previous break/breakup. Apologize if this is confusing, my mind has been pretty muddled the past four months.
I made demands in the letter. Among them was to apologize to her mom and best friend about lying to them. That we’d find a couples therapist and go as soon as possible. Another demand was that I’d confront the wife of the friend she slept with if he didn’t reveal the truth to her himself. I needed to know exactly what happened, if this was the only time and why the hell she hadn’t told me what happened. Going into the confrontation I wasn’t 100% sure that I was gonna still move forward saying I wanted to stay together. I had a couple scenarios in my head. If she avoided the conversation, left or wouldn’t explain everything, I was done. But if I felt she was authentic and followed thru with demands we’d at least be on thin ice for a bit until couples therapy.
When she got home I immediately confronted her, sat her down and had her read the letter. After reading a couple lines she tried to divert, “Can we talk about this,” I didn’t concede and said “If you have any respect left for me, read what I wrote and then we can talk.” A page in, she started bawling and crying her eyes out. And that continued through all 6 pages.
After she got herself together I asked the couple direct questions and demands. It had only been the one time. He was venting about how bad his life had been lately (no intimacy from his wife for 6+ months, 2 DUI’s, lost job) and then came on to her and she eventually had reciprocated. No protection was used. I asked about the threesome idea, she was using the threesome idea as a way to feel less guilty about cheating (yeah I know some incredible logic there).
The reasoning of why she cheated was not really logical either, she said he was really vulnerable with her in that moment, when to me it just sounded like he was saying how much his life sucked and she felt bad for him. She said she held off telling me because I had previously told her cheating was an iron clad dealbreaker and that she was talking with her therapist getting her affairs in order if I broke up with her.
I originally wasn’t going to have her bar contact with him, but two weeks after I confronted her, he told everything to his wife and cut all contact with my Fiancé, in addition his parents cut contact too (who she was good friends with for most of her life). That day I got a FB message from his wife saying “my fiancé had cheated on me with her husband.” We had a long conversation about everything she was kicking him out for an unspecified amount of time and having their two kids stay with her. It was relieving in a way talking to someone going thru the same thing as myself and I had agreed with her for them to have barred contact.
For 2 months after the confrontation things went well. We were very open to each other, talked more, we’re more intimate, did more things together and started couples therapy. But it didn’t last unfortunately. She revealed in couples therapy that the idea of a break/separation came to mind recently and that she might need a break to try to understand why she did what she did and whether she truly wanted to get married, see a future with me. A week after that she confronted me saying she wanted to move forward with that, and would look for a relative to stay with.
For a two week period she talked with relatives and eventually went to stay with her sister, (she’s unemployed at the moment which I believe attributed to why she needed to figure some things out on her own. Another red flag of mine is how obsessed she has gotten about astrology lately, like she’s lost in it or something). Even though I was extremely frustrated with this situation, I granted her that wish.
The last three weeks in this “separation” I’ve been pretty up and down but I think I’ve come to terms that I’ll be ok if she doesn’t want to move forward in our relationship. On my side of things while being apart I’ve reviewed everything so far and can’t get past the fact that the cheating happened just days after we reserved a wedding venue.
I know I didn’t deserve any of this and am still licking my wounds. I also just hate how she’s the one that’s been in decision mode on whether if she wants to stay or not right now. I surprisingly haven’t been suspicious or untrusting at all that she’s cheated on me any other times with him or anyone else, but that could just be tunnel vision cause I’m stupid and somehow don’t currently have major trust issues.
I’ve had some good support from a couple relatives and close friends and have been seeing my own therapist for the last 3 months so I at least have a good support system currently. A cheating partner is something someone should never have to go thru and something I personally definitely didn’t prepare for and am just doing the best I possibly can given the current situation. If this doesn’t work out, I know I will be ok.
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2021.10.26 14:26 Additional-Jello-397 Me sentindo bem
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2021.10.26 14:26 Bargeul Being Christian in interfaith relationships
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2021.10.26 14:26 TheJakYak Weeeeee!
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2021.10.26 14:26 banned_for_nword How to learn German for free?
I am currently planning on moving to Germany in 2 years, but I do not know german. Are there any good free apps out there that could help me? What's the best way to learn German for free?
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2021.10.26 14:26 Bozzaholic Harwich search and rescue: Fears 'migrants swept overboard'
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2021.10.26 14:26 Garlic_bread_100 Enoki mushroom caps feel slimy (?) but they were bought today
I love mushrooms, but I don't have any experience cooking them. The enoki mushrooms I got were bought less than 24 hours ago. There's no expiration date on them though.
The caps feel, I think slimy? But the rest of the mushroom feels normal, or at least what normal feels like to me. The smell isn't what I'd think of as foul or sea food like. It does kinda remind me of something I've eaten before, can't quite put my finger on it.
I guess it could be expired, it'd just really suck because I bought them today :(
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2021.10.26 14:26 PeruvianPolarbear14 Darkrai- 1801 4467 4953
2021.10.26 14:26 Fun_Priority_6276 Is dr Rashmi the lab coordinator for second year chem?
2021.10.26 14:26 Expert-Weather-5180 Looking for full service management of Tesla M3?
Hi, I just bought a tesla M3 and am planning on listing it on Turo, but I don't have time to maintain the rental and all of the stuff that comes with it. I'm wondering if there is a service (or tbh, just a trusty individual) that will:
- Basically manage the entire rental. Process of listing it, getting bookings, handing off the car, getting it back, etc.
- Car cleaning (exterior and interior) after every rental
- Take pictures before and after each rental to assess any damanges
- Deal with claims and stuff that comes up in case of an accident/damage to the car
I'd definitely be willing to shell out something like 20-40% of profits for something like this, does anyone have an idea where I can find such a service in the bay area (San Jose) ?
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2021.10.26 14:26 MrCube19 thank you drstrangeny1 for the fast shipping
2021.10.26 14:26 sam962962 8 team Full PPR
2021.10.26 14:26 Suspicious_Opinions Waiting...
Wow first post yay!
I'm totally crazy about relationships and the idea of love. Although, because I've been single for so long I'm worried I've become quite the cynical little bird. I'll see a couple on the street and quote that vine in my head. I'll read a cute story and just be sad hah. I'm just scared about the possibility that guys don't find me attractive. Never had guy friends, never had guys approach me. But I'm willing to wait, just hope it's not too long.
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2021.10.26 14:26 Bozzaholic Hundreds of north Essex health care workers yet to be vaccinated - despite upcoming law
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2021.10.26 14:26 AmcillaSB Red and yellow long-nosed fighter, serenity boosters, tie wings. Box Thrusters. Dorsal fin. Euclid.
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2021.10.26 14:26 shortsrhumba Camila Costa – CAMILA GP CENTRO DE PORTO ALEGRE
2021.10.26 14:26 SomeonOnTheInternet Ass hair 😳
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2021.10.26 14:26 Kooky-Bandicoot3104 ??
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2021.10.26 14:26 EarlGreyWhiskers [OC] Was told I should post this here also! Some art I did involving Ochako and Asui!
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2021.10.26 14:26 Middle_Raspberry_403 What are items commonly used that have a ridiculous markup price?
2021.10.26 14:26 charlestalk Hosting: Minecraft Bedrock
Hosting a minecraft bedrock survival world! - Available to play often - A good human - Someone 13+ Let me know if your interested! -Thanks!
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2021.10.26 14:26 terrildactyl The Addams Family? This calls for the Mamushka!
I adore the Sonnenfeld films, they are a wonderful metaphor for loving your family despite (or perhaps because of) their idiosyncrasies.
I particularly prefer the second movie, because every second of the Camp Chippewa storyline is pure comedy gold.
Great choice guys, this really brought a smile to my face.
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2021.10.26 14:26 Adventurous-Drama-36 Gen 1 Counter is Wild
You gotta love Gen 1. It’s the only Gen where you can counter a hyper beam on the opponent’s recharge move, then counter your your own counter the next move because they’re asleep lol.
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